The only thing my mom ever complained about was her weight. Never her face or hair. She only ever colored her hair once, and hated it. I have colored mine a lot, for many years and stopped in 2017. My mom only used Oil of Olaz on her face, I do the same. My hands look the same as my mom's had, as neither of us use(d) hand creme. I am the same as my mom, yet different too. Love that this writing made me think of that ❤️