This made me think of my friend and how she 'helped' me to stop toxic positivity towards myself. Her husband had a stroke in January and when people told her all will be okay, she told them things would never be the same as it was before, so no, it will not be okay. It helped me to admit to myself and others that our life will never be the same again either, after my husband's stroke two years ago. I now know how much damage toxic positivity can do